Saying Goodbye: Our Teary Venture into Postsecondary School

Today is Day Five. The fifth day after leaving DD 17 for a year away. The fifth day of homeschooling only four children. The fifth day of feeling a strange mix of excitement for her and grief for us. I feel twinges of guilt every so often for feeling grief; after all, isn’t this what she’s been preparing for all these years? Isn’t this what we’ve all looked toward in anticipation? Yet, I must remember to have grace for myself, to give myself permission to feel whatever it is I must as I let my oldest child go to discover and learn. After all, I’ve wanted to find ways to feed her natural curiosity, to help her move more deeply in her learning, to find just the right mentor in each stage. So, this is the next important step, despite the feeling of deep loss in the moment.

She has been such a delight, such a beautiful model of what deep, earnest, dedicated learning looks like. Her interests are diverse and she can speak eloquently on many subjects: theology, economics, literature, politics. She has drawn the other children into fascinating discussions, so that even DD7 and DS7 have opinions and interesting ideas about feminism, racism, oppression and global warming. We deeply feel her absence and miss her many animated discussions.

And she is becoming more – more of the Godly, passionate, curious, intense, scholarly woman that God has created her to be. She’s extremely happy in her new learning environment. She is ready for the challenge and the more deeply academic environment. She is finding others who share her unquenchable thirst for knowledge, and is finding new ways for this thirst and her desire to grow deeply in faith and relationship with God to coalesce.

 

Indeed, despite our loss, we too, are becoming more. Pressing in to God’s heart for our family and receiving His love and comfort in the letting go has begun to change and shape each of us in ways we hadn’t anticipated. Roles are gently shifting as DS15 now takes on more responsibility, beginning to model and take leadership in ways he hadn’t before.

Exciting changes are in process and we continue the journey prayerfully, expectantly, one day at a time.

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Finding Your Children’s Strengths – Learning Styles and Multiple Intelligences Quizzes

As homeschoolers we have the complete freedom to help our children learn in the ways that best suit their personalities and learning styles. Why allow our children’s educational experiences to simply mirror what is done at school? Our first consideration must be the individual child – what do they love, what are they naturally good at, how do they best learn, how does their unique personality type influence their learning preferences?

Taking Learning Styles Inventory and Personality Profile enables us to see where our child’s strengths lie. We can then create a personalized learning path unique to that child.

Below are a couple of quizzes for getting to know yourself a bit better and how your unique design fits into a learning context.

Well worth the 5 minutes it takes to complete each quiz.

https://www.kidzmet.com/users/register - Personality profile using Myers Briggs and put into a learning context. Quite thorough and perfect for young children through adult.

http://www.bgfl.org/bgfl/custom/resources_ftp/client_ftp/ks3/ict/multiple_int/questions/choose_lang.cfm – Multiple Intelligences Test for High Schoolers

http://www.in.gov/learnmoreindiana/2580.htm – Learning Styles Quiz

~Sharon

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who am I?

Reblogged from alis volat propriis:

In the ninth grade I took a class entitled Learning Strategies: Skills for Secondary Success. Over the past three years of high school studies I have found the techniques, tools and resources used in this course continuously helpful.

I think it is really important to grow to understand yourself in a variety of ways, and in this post I will be exploring the topic of Learning and Personality styles.

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Guest post on Learning Styles and Personality Types by a grade 12 student - my daughter

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Nurturing Your Child’s Brilliance: Passion-Oriented Education

When we first began homeschooling, I hadn’t yet considered that this would be the perfect platform through which I could discover each of my children’s passions. We had simply embarked on a journey that I felt somewhat prepared for because of my teacher education and experience in the classroom. I didn’t realize how drastically my educational paradigms would change and that I would begin to see education in a completely different light than I had as a former public school teacher.

 

Initially, we began homeschooling with many of the public school paradigms in place: the main subjects were highlighted and focused upon; all curriculum executed and directed by me; subject areas not part of the core program (like, art and music, for example) were considered fringe subject areas and we would get to those when we completed the ‘more important’ subject areas. I shudder to think that I might have continued on in that same frame of mind, pushing my children to spend most of their days doing things they dislike and are not naturally good at, while saving the ‘extras’ for afterwards, and only if time allowed. How freeing it has been to see and value each of our children as individuals with unique gift mixes and interests, to help them develop as much skill as possible in their areas of deepest interest, hiring the best mentors we can afford to help move them toward excellence.

 

I have been inspired by Resa Steindel Brown’s experience as shared in her book, The Call to Brilliance. Having to let go of her public school teacher paradigm as I did, she formed an astoundingly successful homeschool co-operative which saw the majority of their children head to college when most children are beginning Middle School. Her approach goes beyond simply allowing your children to be free to be who they are. She, very purposefully, found ways to nurture her children’s (and other children’s) gifts so that they could perform to the very best of their ability. Below is an excerpt from Resa’s son’s site (http://passionorientededucation.com/guildabout.php) aiming to help others find and nurture their children’s innate brilliance.

 

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to see communities of learners beginning to form, and to see our children grow deeply in their God-given areas of brilliance, mentored by the best in that field and passionate about learning and growing in excellence?

 

The program created by Resa Steindel Brown, author of The Call to Brilliance (www.thecalltobrilliance.com)

Passion Oriented Education (TM) Guild Overview:

Description: POE (TM) is a passion-oriented education. A POE (TM) Guild is a co-operative activity group for parents & children designed to execute and support the philosophies and methodology of a Passion Oriented EducationTM.

PHILOSOPHY: All children are born with the seeds of their own brilliance and will thrive in an environment that helps them find, nurture and sustain the passion that leads to that brilliance.

WHY PASSION: Passion propels us forward, summoning our innate drive to explore, discover hidden interests, talents, gifts, and create. A passionate environment is supportive, contagious and engaging, sweeping up adults and children alike.

STRUCTURE: A POE (TM) Guild consists of a motivated director and a group of enthusiastic, hands-on parents. While the director organizes and facilitates the group, it is everyone’s job to work together to implement the ideas, methodologies and activities of a Passion Oriented Education TM. Families meet twice a month for official meetings. Children meet weekly for activities and sub-groups meet as needed.

Identify Interest

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Fuel Interest into Passion

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Ignite Passion into Brilliance

Expose

To a Wide Range of Experiences

To a Specialized Set of Experiences and Activities

To Appropriate Mentors and a Larger Community

Monitor

To Identify Interest

To Identify and Facilitate Passionate Absorption

To Identify More Specific Types of Passion.

Assess

How to Fuel That Interest

How to Fuel That Passion Into Tangible Results

How to Reach Sustained Passion and Bring Brilliance Out into the World

Provide

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The Next Step towards Passion

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The Next Step to Brilliance: Booster Activities

Expansive Set of Opportunities

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POE (TM) Guild – parent generated activities include:

  • Workshop Classes: designed to help children find their interests, talents and passions.
  • Guest speakers: role models ( for children and adults alike) who are living their passions.
  • Fieldtrips: to broaden a wide range of experiences.
  • Playgroups, social groups and events: to help children who are finding their passions connect to each other and interact with other families who have similar values, goals and experiences.

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Noam Chomsky – The Purpose of Education

“It doesn’t matter what you cover; it matters what you discover.”

Great video. Well worth 20 minutes.

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May 15, 2012 · 3:47 pm

Measure by Measure: Motivation & Evaluation

Rethinking Marks and Other Extrinsic Motivators

Daughter. 16. Typing feverishly. Focused.  Thinking through ideas. Creating, writing, expressing, analyzing.

Son. 14. Practicing guitar endlessly. Eyes closed. Shaping musical ideas. Listening, perfecting, creating, colouring.

What motivates DD16 to read, write and study all day, to organize her work meticulously, to fall asleep listening to Great Speeches that Changed the World? She has an unquenchable thirst for knowledge, an inherent desire to learn all that she can about as many subjects as possible.

What motivates DS14 to play classical guitar music several hours a day, to delve into classical music history, to spend hours more listening to great classical guitarists, learning many of the songs he listens to and deeply enjoys? He has found what he loves more than anything else and, joyously, it happens to coincide with his natural talents.

Both are motivated by doing what they love and living in the freedom to pursue that interest as deeply as possible. They are not bound by bells or testing or standardization expectations. Instead, they are free to delve deeply into learning in their area of interest, free to become proficient, excellent. Motivated solely by the satisfaction of learning and doing the very best work possible, loving the process.

They do not need me or anyone else to push them to learn, to persist through the difficult process of learning new ideas or skills. Receiving marks or a report card will have no positive effect on their motivation. They learn and grow quickly and deeply because they love the process.

What is it that compels us to consider important only that which is quantifiable and measurable?

Consider what Alfie Kohn says:

“The carrot-and-stick approach in general is unsuccessful; grades in particular undermine intrinsic motivation and learning, which only serves to increase our reliance on them. The significance of these effects is underscored by the fact that, in practice, grades are routinely used not merely to evaluate but also to motivate. In fact, they are powerful demotivators regardless of the reason given for their use.” (p. 201)

Isn’t it far better to discover my children’s deep interest and greatest area of ability, to find creative ways to inspire my children to want to learn and keep learning of their own volition? Does not intrinsic motivation far surpass the punitive approach that grading can often be?

“Numbers and letters in our grading systems get in the way of what is important in classrooms. When we reduce learning in our students’ eyes to numbers and letters, we lose passion, we lose complexity, we lose fun, we lose depth, we lose the essence of learning.” (Wisehart, p. 146)

Consider orchestra conductor and author of The Art of Possibility, Benjamin Zander’s unconventional approach. He says:

“Michelangelo is often quoted as having said that inside every block of stone or marble dwells a beautiful statue; one need only remove the excess material to reveal the work of art within. If we were to apply this visionary concept to education, it would be pointless to compare one child to another. Instead, all the energy would be focused on chipping away at the stone, getting rid of whatever is in the way of each child’s developing skills mastery, and self-expression. We call this practice giving an A. It is an enlivening way of approaching people that promises to transform you as well as them.  It is a shift in attitude that makes it possible for you to speak freely about your own thoughts and feelings while, at the same time, you support others to be all they dream of being. The practice of giving an A transports your relationships from the world of measurement into the universe of possibility. […] This A is not an expectation to live up to, but a possibility to live into.”
 
Zander continues:
What would happen if one were to hand an A to every student from the start? Roz [Zander’s wife] and predicted that abolishing grades altogether would only make matters worse, even if the Conservatory could be persuaded to support such a plan. The students would feel cheated of the opportunity for stardom and would still be focused on their place in the lineup. So we came up with the idea of giving them all the only grade that would put them at ease, not as a measurement tool, but as an instrument to open them up to possibility.
 
 
“Each student in this class will get an A for the course,” I announce. “However, there is one requirement that you must fulfill to earn this grade: Sometime during the next two weeks, you must write me a letter dated next May, which begins with the words, ‘Dear Mr. Zander, I got my A because…,’ and in this letter you are to tell, in as much detail as you can, the story of what will have happened to you by next May that is in line with this extraordinary grade.”
 
“[…] Often people are quite uncomfortable with the idea of grating the unearned A because it seems to deny the actual differences between one person’s accomplishments and another’s. We are not suggesting that people be blind to accomplishment. Nobody wants to hear a violinist who cannot play the notes or to be treated by a doctor who has not passed the course. Standards can help us by defining the range of knowledge a student must master to be competent in his field. It is not in the context of measuring people’s performance against standards that we propose giving the A, despite the reference to measurement the A implies. We give the A to finesse the stranglehold of judgment that grades have over our consciousness from our earliest days. The A is an invention that creates possibility for both mentor and student manager and employee or for any human interaction. The practice of giving the A allows the teacher to line up with her students in their efforts to produce the outcome, rather than lining up with the standards against these students. In the first instance, the instructor and the student, or the manager and the employee, become a team for accomplishing the extraordinary; in the second, the disparity in power between them can become a distraction and an inhibitor, drawing energy away from productivity and development.”

 

In our homeschool, I choose not to give marks to my children, not because I don’t want them to live out their full potential, but because I feel that finding ways to motivate them intrinsically is the best way to help them accomplish all that is possible for each of them, devoid of fear and bribes, full of confidence and joy in the learning process.

~ Sharon

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Genius Redefined

A wonderful reminder to all of us as we facilitate learning in our homes, that we must seek to discover the inner genius within each of our children. God created us each with unique gifts and purpose.

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